Constantly playing the role of the savior for those around you will significantly weaken you and prevent you from progressing and evolving into the best version of yourself. Contrary to what we were taught from a young age, helping others has its conditions, and it’s not necessarily good to continue offering help to those around you in a random manner. By doing so, you might inadvertently harm the person receiving your help without realizing it, making you the loser in terms of energy and vibrations. However, this topic has become more complicated recently, especially regarding the concept of benevolence and its preference as a good deed by God. That raises the question: How can our help be harmful when God calls us to assist others? This article aims to clarify this. To fulfill God’s command and avoid playing the role of the savior, you first need to understand the difference between benevolence (which is necessary to elevate your energy and raise your vibrations) and playing the role of the savior. Here are some points that clarify the difference between benevolence and playing the savior, and how to distinguish between them:
- Benevolence:
- Genuine Support: The goal of benevolence is to offer help and support with pure intentions, without imposing our solutions or assuming we always know best.
- Respect: We respect the other person’s boundaries and appreciate their ability to solve their own problems. We also ensure that we fulfill our responsibilities at home before offering help. This means that after evaluating our situation, if we find a surplus after taking care of our home and family duties, we can then assist with the required amount.
- Empowerment: We aim to empower the person by providing the tools or support they need to become self-reliant in the future.
- Playing the Savior:
- Imposing Solutions: We may try to impose our opinions and solutions on the other person, believing we know what’s best for them without listening to their concerns and needs.
- Continuous Dependency: Playing the savior often leads to the other person becoming excessively dependent on us, weakening their self-confidence and ability to face challenges on their own.
- Personal Exhaustion: Playing the savior can exhaust us because we constantly take on the responsibility of solving others’ problems.
- How to Differentiate Between Them:
- Intention: Ask yourself why you are offering help. Is your goal truly to assist the other person, or are you seeking a sense of importance or control?
- Boundaries: Do you respect your boundaries and those of others? Benevolence involves offering help within these boundaries, while a savior might overstep them.
- Outcome: If your help leads to enhancing the other person’s independence and development, it’s benevolence. If the person becomes increasingly dependent on you, you might be playing the role of the savior.
By identifying and being aware of these differences, we can offer effective help without falling into the role of the savior.
This topic, among many other complex subjects, has been addressed by Dr. Nada Rachid in her latest course titled “The Forbidden Knowledge of 2024,” available on her website at www.nada741.com.
